We’d been told a story by a neighbour that there was an old grave near the roadside going down the brae to Port Askaig. Legend had it, it was the grave of a mother and baby who had died. Apparently there are times when the mother is said to be heard crying for her lost child. Being someone who loves cemeteries, churches, the stories associated and the like I couldn’t resist going on a grave hunt…
It turns out that the grave is actually a memorial cross in the grounds of Dunlossit House. The cross was erected in remembrance of Isabella Buchanan Gilmour (1861-1900) who was the wife of Donald Turner Martin (1856-1922), the then owner of Dunlossit House. A ‘Tottie Martin’ is also mentioned in the inscription – it’s not clear whether this was a pet name for Isabella or for their daughter, Ila Gretchen Martin who was born in 1883. The cross also remembers Allan Gilmour of Eaglesham (1820-1905), this was Isabella’s father who was living at Dunlossit at the time of his death. There is a similar Gilmour family memorial cross in Eaglesham. Allan Gilmour (1820-1905) is also remembered on that.
Sadly the top of the cross has broken off and now lies on the ground next to the base and main body of the cross. The inscription at the base is just readable as it’s fairly covered over with moss. The carvings on both sides of the cross are beautifully detailed still to this day.
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